Get The Perfect Date With These Simple Steps

Making up your social life is simpler than you may think. Spice up your love life by following these simple steps. Find A Date for Valentines Day-or any other occasion!

Before we start, lets take a minute and think about YOU. The first thing you need to do is get to know yourself before you can meet someone else. Be happy with your own company, and try not be get dependent on finding somebody. Be calm and know you are good enough for anyone. Love yourself so others can love you just as much.


1. If you haven't already, Get Online

Online dating and social networking is an excellent way to meet people and millions of them; usually from outside your normal circle, it's a great opportunity to suss them out before meeting up. Make sure you stand out from the crowd by writing a funny, interesting profile and get that amazing picture of you out there!

2. Friends

If all or most of your friends are couples, your less likely to meet mew people. Get to know more of your single friends, which are more likely to introduce you to other single people.

3. Get out there

You can't get dates by sitting at home. Try and look up or find old friends and go to local events, start meeting and inter-acing with new people. As well as getting you in touch with potential suitors, it will definitely give your confidence a boost.

4. Learn something new - Join A Group

Sign up for an evening class or two, and the coffee breaks are a great excuse to hang out with some attractive strangers, you can take some time to get to know them in a less obvious way.

5. Don’t be a slave to your job

All work and no play- we all know the saying especially in the love stakes. If you feel overworked and lack sleep you won’t feel like going out on dates at all and when you do go out, you won’t be much fun. Leave work at work and keep positive.

6. Borrow A Dog

Dogs seem like one of nature’s great matchmakers- Go to a local park and just watch dog-walkers chatting, flirting and eyeing each other up as the dogs run up and stop for a sniff. If you don’t have one, be "helpful" and take your mate's one out!

7. Connect eyes

connect with people by looking in their eyes; This is another thing that those natural flirts do without even thinking about it. about your life and looking at people in their eyes you will be more confident and interesting – and they’re the two qualities that tend to win more dates than others. It also creates a mystical feature about you, drawing them in and wanting to know more. Make that turn around, they are probably looking back at you too!

8. Try and Talk to More People

The more you chat to a person, the more better you will feel and become confident. Those natural flirts always know how to chitter chatter to those shop cashiers, neighbours etc.Practice makes perfect, so start interacting more- it will feel like a natural task.

9. Attire - Stylish yet sexy

Your clothes are what people see you in, and they say the most about you. Wear clothes that compliment you and your figure.Try wearing clothes that make you feel good- and you don't have to be half naked! Be sophisticated yet sexy. This can work for both the girls and the guys.

10. Vanity!

Vanity- one of the 'seven deadly sins' but it also happens to give your self-esteem a boost. Try not to over-do it - that can just put individuals off. Just be yourself.

11. Make the First Move

Try to be be proactive and confident. If you get worried about every chance of rejection, you won't make any progress. Everyone is flattered by attention and you should remember this; keep the opener brief and casual and perhaps a comment related to your surroundings, and then put the focus on the individual as a person. The more interesting you appear to find them, the more interested they will be in you.

12. Survive the brush-off's

If you come across and approach someone who turns out not to be interested in you, don’t think your world has ended. Rejection is water off a duck’s back. Try again with someone else.

13. Playing hard to get?

Let the man or woman you want know that you like them. If you have been talking for a while and you enjoyed chatting, ask for that number. If you met online and you want to meet up for a drink, tell them. If you had a great first date, text them to say what a great time you had.

14. Leave them wanting MORE of YOU

Try not to cross the line between enthusiasm and stalking. Let them know that you leave them wanting more. If they try to go off, and make excuses, just leave them to it, Try someone else who deserves you.

15. Use those Great Listening Skills

Talking to people is great, but try and listen to them. Be interested in what they have to say, and interact without butting-in.

16. Not your ex!

This can be simply put. Out with the old - in with the new. Don't try and find someone like previous Ex's. There has got to be a reason why it didn't work out. Try something new and exciting

17. Keep your options open

Don't keep a strict profile of what kind of person you want - try different types of people - make it interesting by finding a good quality you have never seen before.

18. Try Not To Look Too Hard

Chances are, when you take a break from looking, someone will come right up. Spend some time with your friends and have some fun!